Wash and wipe the okra with a clean kitchen towel. Cut off the crown and the tip and set aside. Make a slit lengthwise on one side of the okra.
Roast peanuts on low heat, set aside
Grate dry coconut, roast it on low heat until golden brown, set aside.
Add chopped onions, and saute in little oil until translucent. Set it aside, let it come to room temperature.
In your food processor/mixer, grind the grated roasted coconut, onions, garlic and roasted peanuts to make a coarse mixture.
To the above mixture, add chopped tomato, turmeric, chilli powder, coriander leaves, garam masala, and salt as required, mix everything well.
Stuff each okra with this prepared mixture.
Heat oil in a pan, when the oil is hot enough, add the stuffed okra, sprinkle a little salt (go easy on the salt, as we have already added in the stuffing mixture). Shallow fry it on low heat with the lid covered, turning in between a couple of times. To make it crispy, crank up the heat towards the end and toss a couple of times. Enjoy it with chapati, or as a side along with some dal and rice.